Never Broken, Nothing Lacking

One Cause, One Cure

12th & 13th September 2026

Join Dave & Jenny Elleray & Dr Bill Pettit

Never Broken, Nothing Lacking

Join us for two days of stillness, insight, warmth and deeply human conversation as part of Dr Bill Pettit’s 2026 Finding Stillness Legacy Tour.

This is a rare opportunity to spend time in person with one of the pioneering voices within the Three Principles community and to explore a profoundly hopeful understanding of mental health, human experience and our innate capacity for wellbeing.

Dr Pettit will not be undertaking this tour again, making this a particularly precious opportunity to hear him share the insights, stories and understanding gathered throughout more than four decades of work.

An Invitation to See Something New

Most approaches to personal change begin by asking what needs to be fixed, managed or added.

This retreat begins somewhere different.

It points towards the possibility that beneath our changing thoughts, emotions, circumstances and diagnoses, there is something within every person that has never been damaged, diminished or lost.

Over the course of the weekend, Dr Bill, Dave and Jenny will explore how our moment-to-moment experience is created and how clarity, peace and wisdom can become more visible as the mind settles.

There is nothing you need to prepare.

Nothing you need to perform.

Nothing you need to be good at.

There is no pressure to speak or disclose anything you would prefer to keep private.

Simply come as you are.

One Cause, One Cure

A rare two-day retreat with Dr Bill Pettit, Dave Elleray and Jenny Elleray

12th–13th September 2026 | Ambleside, The Lake District

Dr Bill Pettit is a psychiatrist, educator and internationally respected teacher of the Three Principles of Mind, Consciousness and Thought.

He began studying medicine and neuroscience in 1965 and psychiatry in 1973. He has been board-certified in psychiatry since 1978 and has received further certifications in geriatric psychiatry, adolescent psychiatry, psychosomatic medicine and addiction medicine.

Dr Pettit has also served on the academic faculties of several medical schools and has co-authored peer-reviewed work exploring the Three Principles and their relevance to psychology, spirituality and mental healthcare.

In 1983, Dr Pettit met Sydney Banks, the philosopher and teacher through whom the Three Principles understanding was first articulated. Sydney Banks personally mentored Dr Pettit for the following 26 years, until his death in 2009.

Since that first meeting, Dr Pettit has devoted much of his life to exploring and communicating the relationship between spiritual understanding, medicine, neuroscience, psychology and psychiatry.

He brings an unusual combination of clinical experience, spiritual depth, humour, compassion and complete faith in the wellbeing within every human being.

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About Dr Bill Pettit

One of Dr Pettit’s best-known teachings is:

“A diagnosis describes where you are, not who you are.”

His work offers a hopeful alternative to the belief that people experiencing psychological distress are fundamentally broken or permanently defined by their symptoms.

Through the Three Principles, Dr Pettit points towards an understanding of how thought and consciousness bring our experience to life from moment to moment.

From this perspective, anxiety, depression, emotional overwhelm and other forms of mental distress are not evidence that a person’s essential nature has been damaged. They describe a person’s present experience, but they do not define their identity, their potential or the health that remains available within them.

This does not require denying distress, rejecting professional treatment or pretending that difficult experiences are not real. Instead, it offers a deeper context in which those experiences may be met with less fear, shame and hopelessness.

Throughout his career, Dr Pettit has worked with and taught people across a wide range of psychiatric diagnoses. He has repeatedly witnessed people who had come to believe they were permanently broken begin to recognise greater hope, perspective, resilience and psychological freedom.

A Different Understanding of Mental Health

This retreat may be especially meaningful if you have:

  • Experienced anxiety, low mood, panic, emotional overwhelm or chronic stress

  • Received a mental-health or psychiatric diagnosis

  • Felt defined or limited by your past

  • Struggled with shame, self-judgement or the belief that something is wrong with you

  • Spent years trying to manage, analyse or repair yourself

  • Longed for a gentler and more hopeful understanding of your experience

You will not be asked to revisit painful memories, disclose personal information or force yourself into a particular emotional state.

The invitation is simply to listen, reflect and allow fresh understanding to arise in its own time.

This retreat is educational and reflective in nature. It is not a substitute for individual medical, psychiatric or psychological care, and nobody should change prescribed treatment or medication without consulting an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

For People Experiencing Mental or Emotional Distress

This weekend is also highly relevant for therapists, counsellors, psychologists, psychiatrists, doctors, nurses, coaches, social workers, educators, support workers and others working within the helping professions.

Many professionals enter this work because they care deeply about people, yet can gradually find themselves carrying the emotional weight of their clients, questioning whether they are doing enough or feeling overwhelmed by the apparent complexity of human distress.

Dr Pettit’s work offers another way of seeing.

Rather than viewing the person solely through the lens of symptoms, history or diagnosis, the Three Principles point towards the health, wisdom and humanity that remain present beneath the distress.

This understanding can support practitioners to:

  • Listen with greater presence and less pressure to fix

  • See beyond a person’s diagnosis or current state

  • Hold hope without denying the reality of someone’s suffering

  • Recognise the difference between a person and the experience they are having

  • Work with more compassion, clarity and psychological ease

  • Reduce the burden of feeling personally responsible for creating change in another person

  • Trust more deeply in the capacity for insight and wellbeing within those they support

You do not need to work specifically within mental-health services to benefit. The retreat is open to anyone supporting others through challenge, change, uncertainty or distress.

For Professionals Who Support Others

This retreat is not about becoming a better version of yourself.

It is not about acquiring more strategies to control your mind.

And it is not about adding another self-improvement project to your life.

It is an invitation to pause long enough to notice what may already be present beneath the noise:

A quieter mind.

A deeper intelligence.

A capacity for love and understanding.

And a wellbeing that has never depended upon having a perfect life or a permanently peaceful state of mind.

You do not need any previous knowledge of the Three Principles.

You do not need to identify as spiritual.

And you do not need to be struggling to belong here.

Curiosity is enough.

Dr Pettit has recently been immersed once again in Sydney Banks’ books The Enlightened Gardener   The Enlightened Gardener Revisited.

Through this fresh exploration, he has been deeply affected by what the books reveal about stillness, presence and the reality of the present moment.

During the weekend, he will share what he has been seeing and how a quieter mind can reveal access to:

  • Wisdom and inner guidance

  • Psychological innocence in ourselves and others

  • Love, forgiveness and understanding

  • Creativity and meaningful productivity

  • Greater ease within relationships

  • Freedom from unnecessary mental struggle

  • Joy in the ordinary and simple moments of life

  • A deeper recognition of our innate wellbeing

This will not be a weekend of rigid lectures or complicated techniques.

Dr Pettit has a particular gift for bringing simplicity to subjects that can appear complex, often through warmth, humour, clinical experience and real-life stories of hope.

Finding Stillness

Why This Retreat Is Different

Founders of Freedom Thinking and experienced facilitators of the Three Principles understanding. Dave and Jenny create warm, grounded spaces in which people can slow down, feel at ease and explore a deeper understanding of themselves and their experience.

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Your Hosts

Dave and Jenny Elleray

Dr Bill Pettit

Psychiatrist, educator and internationally respected Three Principles teacher, bringing more than four decades of clinical experience and Principles-based understanding.

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Details

Dates: Saturday 12th & Sunday 13th September

Place: Ambleside, The Lake District

Times: Saturday 10am - 5pm | Sunday 10am - 4pm

Investment £200  

Places are limited for this intimate two-day gathering.

You can secure your space with a £50 non-refundable deposit by contacting Dave & Jenny to book via email or phone;

info@freedomthinking.co.uk

07855014777

Come as you are.

Settle into the space.

And give yourself the opportunity to see something new.